Before marriage, we focus on each other as to make us close. After marriage, we tend to turn our focus to jobs and children. We put less time on each other. As time go on, this causes many marriages to turn cold and some eventually die. Have you ever wondered how people stay married for 50 or more years? Do you want your marriage to last for a lifetime? The key to success is to stay focus on your lover and show your love to him. Act now to make your marriage blossom into a fruitful lifetime relationship!

1. SEND LOVE MESSAGE Send a romantic message to his  phone/email. Make sure it’s sweet.

2. START A HOBBY TOGETHER Sharing a hobby together such as hiking, cycling, or watching movies can help keep you close.

3. HAPPY TOGETHER Have fun doing things together such as playing card games, riding horse, or playing badminton. Just remember, if he should get the best of you, don’t tackle him unless you are laughing.

4. APPRECIATE When your husband works hard or does something for you, you should show your appreciation to him.

5. ENJOY THE NATURE Go outdoor activities together. Let nature set the mood for romance. Talk, listen, and hold hands with your husband. Share the sadness and happiness together.

6. LAUGH TOGETHER Forget everything for a while. Let’s go crazy and silly together. Life is hard. If something go wrong, solve the problem together. You can try to find some humor in it as to reduce the stress.

7. TALK ABOUT THE FUTURE The future isn’t as far away as you think. Talk about what you would like to be when you are married for 10, 20 years and so on. Work hard on making the dreams happen.

8. BE HONEST Don’t hide things from your husband. Tell him the truth all the time. This will help him trust you more.

9. TALK ABOUT HIS INTERESTS Bring up a subject that interests him and listen to him. The subject may not be your interest but you should enjoy listening to him as he gets stirred up over the topic. Then you can know more about him.

10. JUST SAY IT Say I love you every single day.